Open Question: When doctors will grow up.?

i am 15years girl. i never had any relation with a boy and i am a virgin . I recall trying to get birth control...I had to have a pelvic exam, rectal exam and pap test. These are all humiliating, and for a 15 years old, they are not lifesaving. They are not even necessary. Yet, I had to take off all of my clothes and let one of them blackmail me into allowing her(doctor) to spread my legs and